You're running the race of university life. What can you expect?
As with any life stage, you will encounter stumbling blocks. But be encouraged, with God’s strength and guidance these challenges help us develop perseverance, faith, and a deeper knowledge of the God who helps us through them. University has some common challenges that are likely to arise while you’re there- so it’s worth taking some time to consider them, and how you will respond, before you go.
‘And we boast in the hope of the glory of God. Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. ’. Romans 5:2-5 NIV.
Drinking
Despite popular assumption, 36% of students don’t drink at university* – that’s over a third of you! However, drinking alcohol does still form the basis of most social activities at university. Often you may be pressured to drink, from friends or students' union committee members. But what would it look like to respond in a Christ-like way? To be able to enjoy a drink (or enjoy the party without the drink!) while still being able to show others the character of Jesus. Think about the fruits of the spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.
Ask yourself:
What would it look like to love my friends on a night out?
Fusion tip:
If you don’t understand God’s view on a certain area, tell him. Seek to understand through reading, praying and talking to leaders in your church family.
Mental Health
It’s no secret that university life can feel overwhelming at times! If you do find yourself struggling with your mental health, it’s important to get help. Sometimes this means getting in touch with a counsellor. In my own experience, self-care and self-awareness can also go a long way.
During an intense and difficult time working on my dissertation, a good friend sat down with me and reminded me of the power of the situation. ‘Liz, it’s like the Snicker’s guy says- you’re not you when you’re hungry’. He was right – how you look after yourself makes a huge difference!
Ask yourself:
What drains me of energy?
What can I do to re-fuel and re-energise?
Fusion tip:
Don’t shy away from telling others in your church family if you’re struggling. God speaks through people and you may be surprised to find that many have been in the same position as you. Make efforts to be accountable to a friend you trust, and start putting down some boundaries around your committments.
Relationships
It can be hard to make the decision to stand out in a culture where casual sex is the norm. But be encouraged- setting apart sex for marriage reveals the high value that God places on sex, and our emotional and spiritual health. The deeper the personal conviction you have about this, the stronger you will be in resisting temptation.
Ask yourself:
Why would a loving God want us to save sex until marriage?
Is there anything I can do, or change, to avoid stumbling in this area?
Fusion tip:
Ask God how he wants your life to look in the face of this pressure. Open up your heart to him and ask him to shape how you see relationships. If you feel like you’ve messed up, don’t distance yourself. Come close to God and he will forgive, heal and lead you forward.
*2016 Sodexo Student Survey