Life gets called many things: A rollercoaster, a test, too short, meaningless, a race...preparation for eternity. 

We often see life as a series of hills and valleys. If we are on the hilltop, we can almost be sure that a valley is about to follow. The tantalising height at the top of the rollercoaster with the amazing views, has to give way to that out of control, stomach churning dip – no matter how long you dangle over the tip. 

Yes life can be like that. It’s true that my clearest memories are generally those in which I was either blissfully happy or feeling painfully low.  There was the heart breaking death of my sister (when I discovered at 10 years old that heart ache…actually aches), and that priceless moment I walked down the aisle surrounded by the people I loved most in the world. 

But I want to challenge Ronan Keating’s beloved Rollercoaster metaphor…Because – it’s very black and white. I don’t want to spend my life not fully enjoying the ups because I’m fearing the inevitable downs. It means we are resigned to one of three status’ - Up, down, or on our way! 

No. I’m going to say that life is like a railway track. Eh? Well let me explain myself..You see, I believe that even through the rubbish, painful, deeply hurting times in our lives – there are good things too. I’m not talking about the pithy idea that ‘every cloud has a silver lining’, but the ability to laugh at and recognise the good things even though you are going through a tough time.

Whilst my sister was in the last stages of life – we still laughed and smiled. Real laughter - not the pretend type you did in the playground when you fell over and all you wanted to do was cry. Because in the messy places you can still spot the beauty.

In the valleys there are flowers. Even the dark caves hide stunning gems and crystals
So, that is my challenge for the day. And if you are going through a particularly tough time – or even a tough day (because every day may not be good – but there’s something good in every day)  make a list of your blessings! Literally. Go on – do it! Because sometimes, yes they get a little darkened in the shadows, but they are still there.

So. Sing that Ronan! 

Isaiah 45:3 

And I will give you treasures hidden in the darkness—
      secret riches.

 I will do this so you may know that I am the Lord,
      the God of Israel, the one who calls you by name.

 

Anna Mathur